You Are Not Alone. Every Warrior Has a Beginning.
This Is Yours.
Break Free. Rebuild Your Identity. Return to the Man You Were Created to Be.
THE RELUCTANT
WARRIOR
Brother… you’ve been carrying more than you admit.The isolation, the addictions, the distance in your marriage, the crushing weight on your chest at 3 a.m. that isn’t weakness.
It’s the gap between who you are and who you know you’re supposed to be.
You don’t need more tactics. You need transformation. The kind that only Christ can build from the inside out.
This guide is the starting point.
100% Free. No sales. No hype. Just transformation.
Faith | Family | Fitness
The Reluctant Warrior
You wake up at 3 AM with the same question:
“Is this all there is?”
You’ve built the business. Made the money. Provided for everyone.
Yet your body feels older than it should…
Your marriage feels like a transaction…
And nothing seems to fill the emptiness.
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No cost. No spam. No strings attached. Just the truth that took 40 years to learn the hard way.
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WHY YOU FEEL STUCK
This isn’t about motivation.
This isn’t about hype.
This is about identity, brother.
You are a warrior.
Not because you feel strong today —
but because God created you to be.
Right now you’re carrying burdens you’ve tried to handle alone:
the drifting marriage, the addictions you promised to beat,
the exhaustion, the emptiness, the quiet shame.
But the reason you’re stuck isn’t because you’re weak.
It’s because you’ve been fighting the wrong battle…
and you’ve been fighting it alone.
This guide is your first step back to the man God intended you to be.
Why You Need This Guide
This isn’t another tactic.
This isn’t a motivational pep talk.
This is a 5-day battle plan built to help you rebuild your life from the inside out.
It’s the roadmap thousands of men wish they had when they were drowning in:
addiction
frustration
inconsistency
spiritual emptiness
marriage disconnect
physical decline
And the best part?
There’s nothing to buy.
No upsell.
No hidden offer.
No program pitch.
This guide exists for one reason:
To pull men out of the same pit you’ve been climbing out of , and point them toward the life they were created for.
Inside this guide, you’ll discover:
Why you’re stuck
How to break free without willpower
How to rebuild strength — physically, spiritually, emotionally
How to lead your marriage with presence and conviction
How to reconnect with God in a powerful way
How to live with clarity, direction, and mission
This is brotherhood.
This is a blueprint.
This is your battle plan.
WHAT’S INSIDE THE
5-DAY VIDEO SERIES
Your Quick Start Guide includes 5 short but powerful videos, each designed to reshape a core area of your life:
DAY 1
FITNESS: STRONGER AT 60 THAN AT 30
A simple 30-minute routine to rebuild strength fast.
No fancy equipment. Real results.
DAY 2
NUTRITION: WHAT ACTUALLY WORKS
The health plan discovered after nearly losing his life ,
and the approach that restores energy and vitality.
DAY 3
HABITS & RITUALS: STOP RELYING ON WILLPOWER
Build a morning system that makes success automatic.
Consistency becomes effortless.
DAY 4
MARRIAGE: FROM ROOMMATES TO RECONNECTION
Not counseling — transformation.
Learn how to restore intimacy, trust, and emotional connection.
DAY 5 — SPIRITUAL LIFE: THE BREAKTHROUGH YOU’VE BEEN MISSING
The 3 spiritual practices that break chains, heal shame,
and rebuild identity at the deepest level.
100% Free. No sales. No hype. Just transformation.
WHAT IS THE RELUCTANT WARRIOR?
The Reluctant Warrior is a movement for men who are tired of pretending everything is fine.
It’s for the man who:
Looks successful on the outside but feels empty inside
Wants to restore his marriage, health, spirit, and purpose
Knows he was built for more but keeps getting stuck
Is ready for change, but not sure where to start
This is not therapy.
This is not motivation.
This is internal transformation — mind, body, spirit, identity.
“WHAT’S COMING” (5-DAY PREVIEW)
5 Days. 5 Videos. 5 Truths That Change Everything.
This isn’t another motivational pep talk.
It’s a 5-day battle plan for men who look successful on the outside…
but feel empty on the inside.
Here’s a preview of what’s coming when the Guide launches:
Day 1: FITNESS
The 30-Minute Protocol That Made Me Stronger at 60 Than I Was at 30
Forget the gym-bro nonsense and 2-hour sessions.
I'm going to show you the exact simple approach I use to be stronger now than I was at 30, and how strength becomes a spiritual discipline, not vanity.
Day 2: HEALTH
The Hidden War Destroying Successful Men From the Inside Out
Chronic fatigue. Brain fog. Declining drive. It's not "just getting older."
After nearly dying from Valley Fever and discovering the viral infections silently wrecking my hormones for decades, I learned what's actually attacking men like us, and the protocols that rebuilt me from the inside out.
Day 3: HABITS
How to Engineer Days That Build Empires and Souls
You don't need more discipline. You need a system.
I'll show you the morning ritual that makes consistency automatic, so you stop relying on willpower and start stacking wins before most men hit snooze.
Day 4: RELATIONSHIPS
From Divorce to the Marriage I Didn't Deserve
This isn't about date nights or "communication tips."
It's about becoming the man she can trust, respect, and feel safe with again. I went from a failed marriage to leading my home with Angelica in a Christ-centered covenant. I'll show you how.
Day 5: SPIRITUAL
Why Everything I Built Almost Killed Me
I had the money. The businesses. The respect.
And I was dying inside. This is the day you'll see why success without Christ is slow suicide, and how surrendering to Him resurrected everything I thought was gone for good.
⏳ The 5-Day Quick Start Is Not Live Yet.
No cost. No spam. No strings attached. Just the truth that took 40 years to learn the hard way.
WARRIOR KITS
Tools to rebuild communication, deepen connection, and lead your relationships well.
WHAT’S INSIDE THE 5-DAY VIDEO SERIES
Your Quick Start Guide includes 5 short but powerful videos, each designed to reshape a core area of your life:
Fitness: Stronger at 60 Than at 30
Steve breaks down the exact 30-minute training routine he uses to stay stronger at 60 than he was at 30. No fluff. No fads.
Just a simple method that works even if you’re out of shape or starting over.
Nutrition: What Actually Works
After battling Valley Fever and nearly losing his life, Steve discovered the nutritional principles that actually restore health, energy, and vitality.
This isn’t a diet.
It’s a fuel plan that rebuilds your body from the inside out.
Habits & Rituals: Stop Relying on Willpower
You don’t need more discipline you need better systems.
In this video, Steve teaches the morning routine that makes success automatic and breaks the cycle of inconsistency.
Marriage: From Roommates to Reconnection
This is not marriage counseling.
This is how you transform your marriage—by becoming the man she can trust, admire, and feel safe with.
Steve went from divorce to an incredible marriage grounded in Christ.
He’ll show you how to rebuild intimacy the right way.
Marriage: From Roommates to Reconnection
This is not marriage counseling.
This is how you transform your marriage—by becoming the man she can trust, admire, and feel safe with.
Steve went from divorce to an incredible marriage grounded in Christ.
He’ll show you how to rebuild intimacy the right way.
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We're here to support you every step of the way.
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A Complete
Learning Experience
Experience the complete learning journey inside the all-new FTF, where filmmaking education, creative growth, and business training all live under one roof.
All 800+ Full Time Filmmaker tutorials — included.
Browse through hundreds of lessons from our best-selling courses, like Pocket Filmmaker, Real Estate Video Pro, Premiere Pro Masterclass, and more. Originally a $997 standalone course, now included.
Creator Kits: Exclusive content from Top Creators
Get exclusive content drops from top creators - each kit includes video lessons, downloadable assets, and gear breakdowns straight from their workflow, giving you a behind-the-scenes look at how the pros create.
Industry-Specific Filmmaking Techniques and Disciplines
Explore the exact gear top creators rely on for their professional work - from photography & filming gear, to lighting & audio setups - so you can confidently build your own kit and avoid wasting money.
You are not meant to walk your battles alone.
THE BROTHERHOOD WHERE MEN RISE TOGETHER
At over 25,000 strong, we’re one of the largest, most active creator communities - nearly a decade old and deeply rooted in the modern creative world. It’s more than support, it’s real momentum.
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Members Get to Participate, Live & Uncut
Be the first to watch the newly launched FTF Show live, at least a week before it drops on YouTube. Join the chat, ask direct questions, and share your input in real time - ad free, through all four segments – Expert Advice, Gear, Stories, and weekly updates.
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Your Community for Connection & Support
Join our exclusive members-only Facebook Group - your space to connect with fellow creators, get real-time feedback, ask questions, share wins, and stay inspired alongside a supportive, like-minded community.
Weekly Calls
Focused on fitness, discipline, emotional mastery, and spiritual grounding.
Daily Accountability
Share wins, track habits, and receive support from men on the same path.
Live Workshops
On relationships, resilience, and navigating the inner battles men don’t talk about.
WHY THIS MATTERS
You’re tired of starting over.
You’re tired of trying harder with nothing to show for it.
You’re tired of feeling like you were created for more…
while living like less.
This isn’t motivation.
This isn’t hype.
This is about identity.
You are a warrior.
And this guide is the first step back to becoming the man God designed you to be.
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A Built-In Job Board for Creators
Browse and apply for real job opportunities - or post your own gigs to hire talent - all from inside the platform. The Integrated Job Board makes it easy to find work, build your portfolio, and grow your filmmaking career.
All 800+ Full Time Filmmaker tutorials — included.
Browse through hundreds of lessons from our best-selling courses, like Pocket Filmmaker, Real Estate Video Pro, Premiere Pro Masterclass, and more. Originally a $997 standalone course, now included.
Creator Kits: Exclusive content from Top Creators
Get exclusive content drops from top creators - each kit includes video lessons, downloadable assets, and gear breakdowns straight from their workflow, giving you a behind-the-scenes look at how the pros create.
Industry-Specific Filmmaking Techniques and Disciplines
Explore the exact gear top creators rely on for their professional work - from photography & filming gear, to lighting & audio setups - so you can confidently build your own kit and avoid wasting money.
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JOIN THE RELUCTANT
WARRIOR MOVEMENT
A modern rite of passage for the man who refuses to settle,
Who knows there is more within him, and who is finally ready to rise.
start Your Free
Quick Start Guide
Start your 5-day journey from surviving… to conquering.
Your breakthrough begins now, brother.
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frequently asked questions
If you have any questions that aren’t addressed here, feel free to reach out to us at [email protected]
Do I need to be religious?
No. The spiritual practices are universal, not tied to any specific belief system.
Is this program only for advanced athletes?
Not at all. Whether you’re rebuilding your fitness or leveling up, the path adapts to where you are.
How much time does this require?
Most members commit 45–90 minutes per day depending on training, rituals, and reflection.
Is the community mandatory?
No, but most men say it becomes the most powerful part of their growth.
Can I join if I’m struggling mentally or emotionally?
Yes. This platform is built for men navigating real challenges, not a place of judgment, but rebuilding.
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Strength • Brotherhood • Identity • Purpose
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FOR MEN READY FOR CHANGE
What You Get When You Join The Waitlist
Men today are:
Day-One Access: You’ll be the first to know when the Quick Start Guide is released.
No Pressure, No Payment: This is a free resource—no upsell, no hidden subscription.
First in Line for Future Resources: When new tools and trainings for men launch, waitlist members hear about them first.
If you’ve ever thought, “Something has to change,” this is your next right step.
You can unsubscribe anytime. No games. Just straight truth for men who are done pretending.
Every man eventually reaches a choice.
Keep Doing What You’re Doing… or Start a Different Fight.
You can keep grinding.
Keep pretending it’s “not that bad.”
Keep waking up at 3 AM with the same question… just older.
Or you can draw a line in the sand and say:
“I’m done living like this.”
The Reluctant Warrior Quick Start Guide won’t fix your whole life in 5 days.
But it will:
Expose the lies that have kept you stuck.
Give you a battle plan for your body, mind, relationships, and spirit.
Point you back to the only source of real transformation: Christ.
It took me 40 years to learn these lessons the hard way.
In 5 videos, you’ll see what I wish someone had handed me at 30, 40, or 50.
No cost. No spam. No strings attached. Just the truth that took 40 years to learn the hard way.
Copyrights 2025 | The Reluctant Warrior
Strength • Brotherhood • Identity • Purpose
The Reluctant Warrior – For men who look successful on the outside, but know they were created for more.